Friday, September 14, 2012

Listening


Listening

I was able to attend the Listening Forum hosted by the Vermont Commission on Women (VWC) this week. It was moving to hear the perspectives and concerns of young women and girls in Bennington County. The aim of the listening forum was for agencies and community leaders to learn how they can strengthen their work to better serve these women. 

Young women and girls from area high schools and middle schools presented their stories that ranged from success stories to victim stories. Some identified as teens overcoming the stigma of teen pregnancy, some identified as teens that were once shy and detached, and now are involved and connected to others.  

The participants were asked to come up with ideas about what young women need to thrive in this community. Their contributions included: support, respect, privacy, trust in relationships, positivity, goals, positive connections to the community, ownership in decision-making, and faith in one’s self and others. Other more tangible ideas were: a confidant, access to mental health, insurance, afterschool activities, transportation to afterschool activities, and information about accessing community resources.

It was an uplifting experience to hear directly from the teens and girls who use community resources or extracurricular activities to build a network of trusted individuals who care. I heard inspirational stories of empathetic teachers at the local high school giving students a voice through the performing arts or leadership development, and alternative school programs building teens up through leadership roles.
  
After leaving the forum with a great sense of hope, I am more confident in the tenacity of youth in this community. Keeping the stories and ideas these remarkable young women shared close to my heart, I’ll draw on them while designing workshops, community service projects, and communication to youth for this year. All the while, I hope to further the notion that there are many stories of youth in the Bennington area if we choose to listen.

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http://women.vermont.gov/


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